It’s a general mindset which is also accepted by all of us that A Father, A Brother or A Husband is the head of the family; but why? Is it only because they are physically, mentally and financially strong? Or they are performing both responsibilities together whether at personal or at professional front. Are these reasons enough to consider them as leader of our lives?
But when it comes to comparison; you are well known to the fact that women not only following men; but moving one step forward from them. Then what’s the meaning of partiality? Why are we creating differences?
If you are marrying a woman and welcoming her in your family then it’s very important to respect, value and admire her. If you are accepting orders from your female boss at workplace then what’s wrong in taking an advice or a suggestion from your soul mate? Trust me no one can handle a worst situation in a better way as compared to woman. She can manipulate the situation very easily as she have a strong tendency to handle different kind of people at different type of situations.
From giving advice to brother or suggesting an optional way to father, giving an opinion to husband or giving solutions to colleagues; she has solution of every problem. She knows very well what will be fruitful whether being practical or emotional depending upon the situation.
We are living in a 21st century but still hesitating while saying that I have to ask my wife first or let me see what my wife says?
She is performing all her duties very well while at home or at workplace. Then why we don’t trust her. Why we are not giving her a special place in our homes and in our lives. It’s not necessary that all the decisions taken by you will be always right. Then why are you not giving her a chance to express herself freely. You will see the magic, her confidence level will boost up when you just say a few words to someone in front of her that
‘She is the holy soly of my family; ask her first’
‘She is the boss of my life, let’s listen what she says’
She is playing many roles in her life from better halves to affectionate mothers. Say thanks to your sisters, mothers and wives to keep you well organized, spiritual, lovable and many more; in short well balanced. Understand and respect their decision-making processes and all other special qualities that she have.
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